I don’t care.
This conversation has drifted into the absurd. So I’m going to state a few things plainly, because euphemisms only enable what you’re doing.
In a free society, self-regulation of feelings is an individual’s responsibility. No one owes you emotional safety from criticism. Plus this is all very much self-inflicted. You’ve been an active participant in creating the dynamic you’re now objecting to.
What you’re doing is a bigger problem than someone’s “wrong” tone. This is weaponized virtue signaling, an easily recognizable pattern of discourse control:
A) He criticizes your work.
B) Instead of debating the work, you assume moral superiority and reframe the disagreement as a question of character or “values.” You turn it into an attack on his character.
C) A discussion about performance devolves into an unsolicited lecture on compassion and dignity, where, conveniently, everyone else’s character is suspect and yours is immaculate.
This is not subtle. It is not novel. Unfortunately, I’m sure we’ll see more of it.
I’m not new to the “good vibes only” façade and what’s behind it.
It just so happens that these deflective tactics are widely used across many contexts to avoid accountability. It’s how power insulates itself when results are lacking. I’m deeply skeptical of anyone who reaches for this tactic, and I have no sympathy for it, especially in a community that funds work precisely so it can be evaluated openly and critically.
Now let’s get back to reality, because while you’re doing this in the forum, your wallet is proving to be a failed experiment. And I’m not referring to its MySpace-era UX design.
Here’s my experience with Zingo last Friday:
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I opened Zingo and was welcomed by a screen I’ve never seen before. My balance was gone, and while I was told not to worry because “my funds are safe,” the performative reassurance was functionally meaningless because immediately after that, Zingo forced a full resync from the wallet’s birthday height.
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This is a 4-year-old wallet, which means I am now locked out of my own funds for weeks because that’s how long it will take to restore it.
Did you know the wallet you built does this? That is not a UX nit. That is a fundamental failure of a financial tool. A wallet that can unpredictably revoke access to funds, without user consent and without a fast recovery path, violates the most basic expectations.
While users can lose access to their funds at any time, you are in public threads moralizing, tone-policing, and posturing about values. I would never invest in that combination. It tells me you do not fully grasp the weight of the responsibility that comes with building infrastructure people trust with their money. Your rhetoric does not compensate for catastrophic UX. And it certainly does not entitle you to continued funding.
We do not need moral lectures from wallet developers. We need wallets that work.
As a user, yes, I am (gasp!) angry. Mostly at myself for not moving to a different secondary wallet sooner.
Zingo had a head start on Zashi, and it still looks and works like a prototype. At this point, it will not catch up. A wallet that can arbitrarily cut off access to funds by forcing a multi-week resync fails the minimum bar for production software.
I hope this answers all further questions.